とあれば => If A N1
Conditional, While
てくれる => Do for someone. N4
Give and take advice
と[言「い」]わせれば => On the view of N1
Based/focused/depending on
[頂「いただ」]く => Received N4
Give and take advice
てばかりはいられない => Cannot always A N2
Needs, Requirements
なければならない => Must do A; have to A N4
Can, Should, Must
から[見「み」]れば => If you think from the standpoint of A N2
Considering, Concerning
ともなると,ともなれば => When (the time/situation) A N1
Time, Situation
て[頂「いただ」]く => Do for N4
Give and take advice
ばそれまでだ => If A happens, it's over (nothing will be of use) N1
Conditional, While
たいばかりに => B is done solely because of A N2
Reason, Result, Response
といえば/というと/といったら => N3
Considering, Concerning