あえて => dare to N2
Suggestion
てもらえるとありがたい => grateful, thankful if... N4
Emphasize
なんてあんまりだ => If it like that, it is too much… N3
Extreme level
~あえて      => dare to; daringly; deliberately; purposely ~ N1
じゃありません => not to be N5
Emphasize negative meaning
あまりに(も)~と / あんまりに(も)~と => too much; so much… that; excessively ~ N3
Extreme level
あえて~ない => Not trying to find a way N2
Emphasize
じゃありませんでした => was not, were not N5
Emphasize negative meaning
に...がV-てあります => Object status N4
Description
そうじゃありません => Not like that, Not that way N5
Confirm
あまり => so much… N3
More or less in quantity
にあたり/にあたって => at the time; on the occasion of ~ N2