去る者は追わず、来たる者は拒まず

さるものはおわずきたるものはこばまず

do not pursue those who leave you and do not turn away those who come to you

去る者は追わず

さるものはおわず

do not pursue those who leave you

来る者は拒まず

くるものはこばまず

accept one who comes to you

去る者追わず

さるものおわず

do not chase the one who leaves (Confucius)

来る者拒まず

くるものこばまず

accept one who comes to you

知る者は言わず言う者は知らず

しるものはいわずいうものはしらず

he who knows, does not speak; he who speaks, does not know; those who know do not talk; those who talk do not know

鹿を追う者は山を見ず

しかをおうものはやまをみず

You cannot see the wood for trees

去る者は日々に疎し

さるものはひびにうとし

Out of sight, out of mind

来者

らいしゃ

visitor

生ある者は必ず死あり

せいあるものはかならずしあり

no mortal escapes death; all men must die; he who has life, certainly has death

生有る者は必ず死有り

せいあるものはかならずしあり

No mortal escapes death

経験者は語る

けいけんしゃはかたる

take it from me; I speak from experience; word to the wise

拒否者

きょひしゃ

refuser; objector

いたずら者

いたずらもの

mischief-maker, trickster, prankster

先ずは

first of all; to begin with; before anything else

手はず

てはず

arrangements; plan; programme; program; preparations

ずるずる

sound or act of dragging

ならず者

ならずもの

ruffian, scamp, hooligan

礼ははずむ

れいははずむ

to make it worth someone's while; to make something worthwhile