人には添うて見よ馬には乗って見よ

ひとにはそうてみようまにはのってみよ

you can't judge someone until you've spent time with them, just like you can't judge a horse until you've ridden it

ようによっては

depending on the way...; depending on how...; according to how...

見方

みかた

viewpoint, point of view

にあっては

にあって

in, on, at, during, in the condition of

人には添うてみよ馬には乗ってみよ

ひとにはそうてみようまにはのってみよ

you can't judge someone until you've spent time with them; you can't judge something until you've tried it; judge a man by living with him, and try a horse by riding him

馬には乗ってみよ人には添うてみよ

うまにはのってみよひとにはそうてみよ

you can't judge someone until you've spent time with them; you can't judge something until you've tried it; try a horse by riding him, and judge a man by living with him

例によって

れいによって

as usual, as is one's habit

事によって

ことによって

via, through, by doing, by means of, using

見せ方

みせかた

presentation techniques, way of showing something

見てろよ

みてろよ

just you wait and see (as a threat)

に当たっては

にあたっては

when it comes to; concerning

事と次第によっては

こととしだいによっては

according to the circumstances; depending on how things go; if the occasion requires

目に見えて

めにみえて

remarkably, noticeably

にしては

for (e.g. "she dances well for an eight-year old"), considering it's (something or someone)

時宜によって

じぎによって

depending on circumstances

状況によって

じょうきょうによって

depending on the situation, depending on circumstances

助力によって

じょりょくによって

with (someone's) help

如何によって

いかんによって

depending on...

選りによって

よりによって

of all (things, people, places, days, etc.)